Simplicity is Centeredness in the Face of Adversity

In a world where so much feels like it’s unraveling—our communities, institutions, economy, science, medicine, education, even the very fabric of families—it is easy to lose sight of what matters most. The rising tide of hate and division makes advice even more essential: return to simplicity. Focus on what’s meaningful. Celebrate beauty through small things.

Extend grace to yourself and others. Keep moving forward. Live fearlessly in the belief that joy, faith, and kindness can still be found, especially by helping those around you and giving of yourself freely, without expectations.

In my neighborhood, we are fortunate that children feel safe and comfortable playing outside. I recently cleaned up my daughter’s old wagon, which had been sitting in the backyard, previously used for hauling dirt around the garden, and gifted it to my young neighbors. Watching and hearing their delight in playing with the wagon brought me quiet joy.

Just this week, my three-year-old neighbor asked their mother to share a piece of birthday cake with me. They ran outside, cake in hand, jumping with excitement when I accepted it with a smile. I told their siblings I’d gladly spoil my dinner for birthday cake. Their mom told me the gesture was entirely their idea. She gently reminded the child to come back inside and finish celebrating with their family. I was deeply touched.

Today, I drove over an hour to volunteer at Social Change’s community garden in Englewood. A farmer from North Carolina—now teaching city residents how to grow their own food—leads the project. It was new for me, too—a self-described country kid at heart. A local family came out to help. We worked hand in hand—strangers at first, connected by purpose.

Sometimes, all I can offer is a nod and a smile. Yet even that simple act gives me a sense of peace—and connection.

When I feel overcome by sadness or anger about the world, I return to grounding practices: tending my garden, looking for hummingbirds by the honeysuckles, walking, calling a friend. These are small acts of faith. To continue doing what’s right, to move forward with intention—that, to me, is the highest and best use of my time and energy.

A kinder, safer tomorrow begins with kindness today.

Angels in the Honeysuckles